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Brian Kay

BRASS INSTRUMENT INSTRUCTOR

Teaching Elementary and Middle School Aged Students

trombone lessons

 

"Tom absolutely loves his lessons. You make a great difference in his life."

- Dottie Whitlock, Parent of a Middle School Trombone Student.


"I cannot begin to tell you how much I appreciate all your years of dedication as Dan's trombone teacher. You were his first teacher, and the development and opportunities he has had with your guidance have been immeasurable and beyond my highest expectations. I am so glad he stuck with it all these years (9 and still counting), and that we were lucky enough to have you there as his teacher, role model, and friend, watching him grow from beginner to advanced player. You have always been positive and encouraging and I truly feel this has nurtured his love of the trombone and his confidence as a player."

- Chris, Parent of an Elementary through High School Student


"We can't say enough how much we appreciate Brian being our son's trombone teacher. Although we live in Newburyport, MA, we find the 2 hour round trip completely worth the travel time to have our son study with Brian. He is not only a professional and talented performer himself but a teacher totally dedicated to the skill of teaching. Brian approaches teaching in the most positive way, successfully acknowledging both his student's strengths while setting personal and continuous goals for improvement. Our son looks forward to his lessons dearly and finds the personal attention and commitment of his teacher to him a support in all aspects of his life, with music being only one of them."

- Penny and Joshua, Parents of an Elementary student

 

Instruments Taught

  • Trombone
  • Bass Trombone
  • Euphonium (Baritone)
  • Tuba

Teaching Philosophy

Kids deserve a teacher who makes the learning process exciting and enjoyable. Kids need a teacher who makes sure they develop habits that will serve them well as they progress on their instrument. Most important is that a young player experience a positive momentum, fueled by genuine improvement. An experienced teacher can nip bad habits in the bud very easily and effectively, and will lay the groundwork for continuing musical success. Learning an instrument is a serious endeavor, but there is plenty of room to have fun along the way!

The middle school years are a time to shore up any weaknesses from the first years of learning, and begin to build some serious skills in preparation for high school challenges. This starts with making sure excellent foundations are laid. It is tremendously important for young players to be able to perform and understand all of the material in a well written set of method books, such as Accent on Achievement, Volumes 1 and 2, before progressing to more complex and physically demanding material. I find this series of books is the most enjoyable and effective to work straight through, in the context of private lessons. Having mastered these two volumes, students are thoroughly ready to continue to more advanced challenges with solid success. Lessons can also cover current school band music. But it is vital to lay strong foundations of fundamental technique, and music reading ability, using material custom tailored to the level of each student.

Middle school years can be a time to more thoroughly understand concepts such as 6/8 time, syncopation, key signatures, and other aspects of music reading. It is a time when a kid begins to transition from a child's to an adult's physique and this brings opportunities for developing range and a stronger, clearer sound.

Once a strong foundation has been set, a student can begin to climb confidently, layering skill upon skill, and begin to progress towards truly towering levels of ability. As skills are learned, students experience the excitement of being able to play music of their choice, including selections that would have previously been too difficult or complex for them.

Writing, testing, and revising my Intermediate Trombone Method, which I self-publish, has been a key exercise for me in understanding the educational challenges in detail for players of this age range. I greatly enjoy using it in my own teaching and watching students thrive through it!

For students who are interested, we can incorporate jazz improvisation into our lessons, and also just simple melodic improvisation. In addition to being an important skill, improvisation provides variety in the lesson, and is an excellent motivational boost for young students.

trombone lesson

Three Foundational Skill and Habit Areas

Lesson Structure

Communication

Communication is the name of the game. If a private student doesn't understand what I have told them, then I need to explain it in a different way.

Some books that have been instrumental in developing my teaching style are:

  1. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen R. Covey. Simon & Schuster. ISBN 0-671-70863-5.
  2. How to Get Your Child to Practice Without Resorting to Violence!!, Cynthia Richards. Advance Publications. Available from Ithaca Talent Education (800-338-7483).
  3. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele and Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Avon Books, 1999.
  4. What to Say to Get What You Want, Sam Deep and Lyle Sussman. Addison-Wesley. ISBN 0-201-57712-7.
Numerous additional books on teaching are listed in the Instructor Resources section of this website.

Some of the key principles of communication from these books are:

  1. Put first things first.
  2. Expect the best.
  3. Seek to understand then be understood. Listen before talking, think before acting.
  4. Get to the point.
  5. Change what they do, not who they are.
  6. Model the behavior you desire.
  7. Adapt your approach to the person.
  8. Provide for dignity and self-respect.
  9. Appeal to self-interest using natural rewards.
  10. Rejoice at success.
  11. Feel your losses with remorse not guilt.
  12. Think win/win--synergize.
  13. Sharpen the saw--take time out to improve yourself and your teaching methods.
  14. Be positive and enthusiastic.
  15. Use tension dissolvers.

Other

Here are some links to pages on this site that will help you get a good sense of what my teaching is like.

To schedule a lesson, or If you have other questions about my teaching, please feel free to email me.

 

Trombone Sheet Music

My Intermediate Methods